I Blame Our Mothers For Planting "Sense Of Entitlement In Nigerian Men" ─ Simi


Nigeria singer, simisola Bolatito Ogunleye, professionally known and referred to as Simi, voice out his opinion on issues concerning nigerian men.  

she made it known in a chat with Nonye Ben-Nwankwo and Ademola Olunilua of Punchng, she said, " i don't believe that Nigerian man are romantic. i think Nigerian man do not think they have to be romantic".

"she went forward to say, I am not saying to bash men but i think no one pushes Nigerian men to fight for anything so they have this sense of entitlement. I was watching a Nigerian movie one day and there was this unfaithful Nigerian man who left his wife for another woman.
At the end of the day, the other woman left him and he retraced his steps to his initial wife. The lady's mother actually told her to kneel in front of the man and that bothered me a lot even though i knew it was a movie. that is the way things are.

A lot of men grow up in this country feeling entitled to certain and things and they believe that they don't have to work for anything. This has been the case for generation and lot of our mothers were unhappy because the society expected them to stay in the relationship.

I am not saying it is right thing for people to leave their relationship but a man needs to fight for what he wants so he can value it. I think the problem is because a lot of Nigerian men feel self-entitled and I blame our culture and our mothers.

Most mothers are the problems because when something happens, they are quick to advise the daughters and wives, they don't tell the men that their actions are wrong. so if a man feels that he does not have to fight to keep the relationship, he would not.

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